I finally learnt my lesson it's not worth it to always plan out everything.
I usually like to plan everything before it happens. Whether its something important like a speech or something trivial like a social event. I would spend my night thinking about what I'm going to wear or who I'm going to talk to or what I'm going to say etc. I've come to realize that sometimes not everything can go my way and sometimes I just need to go with the flow. Everything that's meant to happen will take place at its own time.
Sometimes life has its own plans whether good or bad and planing things out in my head isn't really a good idea since it usually leads to disappointments.
Yes it's good to have high expectations but it's also good to be realistic. So I think this summer I'll try to go with the flow and not get my hopes up too high that way I'll have less disappointments and be able to accept situations the way life has planned them out for me.
Wednesday, 18 July 2012
Wednesday, 4 July 2012
Self Respect
A lot of girls spend their time looking for ways to impress boys rather than being themselves and standing out. I understand growing up as a teenage girl is really difficult. It always seems as though everyone is looking at you and making judgements. I've seen so many girls that I know become humiliated because of one mistake.
Many of them give themselves to boys because they think that's the only way they can keep them. A boy once told me that any girl that is willing to give herself to him at this age is definitely someone who he could never respect. At first I thought it was extremely rude to say and I started to look at him differently but growing up I have realised that what he said actually does make sense. Many girls don't have respect for themselves so it is hard to respect them but at the same time we can't be too quick someones actions because we don't particularly know their situation. However, I do believe that no situation could be so bad for any teenage girl to expose herself to boys and act as a sex symbol. " your body is a temple"
I have to thank God for the way I was brought up, I always have respect for myself and I try not to make any mistakes that I know would change the way people look at me.
Many of them give themselves to boys because they think that's the only way they can keep them. A boy once told me that any girl that is willing to give herself to him at this age is definitely someone who he could never respect. At first I thought it was extremely rude to say and I started to look at him differently but growing up I have realised that what he said actually does make sense. Many girls don't have respect for themselves so it is hard to respect them but at the same time we can't be too quick someones actions because we don't particularly know their situation. However, I do believe that no situation could be so bad for any teenage girl to expose herself to boys and act as a sex symbol. " your body is a temple"
I have to thank God for the way I was brought up, I always have respect for myself and I try not to make any mistakes that I know would change the way people look at me.
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